This is going to be partially a justification, partially psychological, partially philosophical but completely sensible! Have you ever been tagged emotional by your fellow beings? colleagues and relatives? Are you the most aggressive person in your group? Do you tend to
erupt when someone kindle you? Fine! You are emotionally imbalanced then. Because you don't have a good control over your
temperament. You are turbulent. So what do I advise you to do? Feel ashamed and kill yourself! Does it benefit others? May be yes! Does it make a difference to you? Definitely yes? Because you aren't what you are anymore? Is this change necessary? Yes. It's mandatory!
Can we stop talking crap?
What do you achieve by controlling your emotions? A Fake smile, some false friends, a number of volatile fans and finally millions and millions of dead cells on your head, face and eyes!
What do I achieve by letting out anger? Peace, true friends, focus, sometimes justice and only a hundreds of dead cells on my eyes and fore head. No further killing.
What is imbalance? Is this not a relative term? If there is abnormality what do you call normal? Who sets the bench mark? Society? Individuals? Economists? Psychologists?
What is the measure to calculate imbalance? Can anyone explain?
I don't have answers for all the questions. I am not very optimistic about staying cool. You aren't a piece of sink after all. If you're one, you are junk.
Speak your thoughts, display your emotions, spread the attitude and be unique. Be yourself. Masking secures identity and it's good only on computers.
Of course have morality and ethics. Definitely everybody deserve respect. Letting out anger isn't a sign of disrespect or insult. Communicating your disappointment comforts you to large extent than keeping it with in you.
After all life is short. Why do you need a mask? Why shouldn't you have a rigid shape?
Ego is the unique you. Don't pretend to have lost it. Modesty is not the best policy but honesty is.
Laugh and dance on your success!
Sing and shout when excited
Cuddle and cry when defeated
Display anger and boil on dismay
Stand up, stay unique, spread attitude and be yourself!
Being emotional is not stupidity. It's being genuine. I am not bothered to be angry as long as I make sense. Does it make sense? You should have quit long time back if it was non-sense :-)
Bottom Line: Managers are assertive! Leaders are aggressive! I choose to be a leader.
Because ... Leaders sacrifice themselves for their people and principles while managers sacrifice people and principle for business
